How Some Strange Things Men Desire Can Make Him Go Mad For You
Hello, Emily Wood here again to let you know how some strange things men desire can make them go crazy for you!
Have you ever stopped to think to yourself and wonder why you feel so attracted to a certain guy?
Even sometimes felt attracted to a guy and think, “I don’t even want to be attracted to him!” But why does this, and how can this happen?
Why is it that sometimes we fall in love although our conscious mind say’s no?
These kinds of feelings and their triggers are mostly hidden away deep down in our heart and mind, or our emotional feelings, it’s a part of us that we don’t necessarily have much conscious control over.
Falling in love is not something that we just simply decide to go out and do. For example, it’s a bit like getting hungry. When we feel hungry, that feeling comes from deep down in our primal instincts related to survival, and if we try to ignore it, the feeling just gets stronger.
What if I said to you that men experience this “hunger” deep down in a relationship way.
But they cannot satisfy this hunger just by themselves. Do you want to know what it is he is so “hungry” for?
You can carry on reading here or take a quick look at this video which will explain the answer for his “hunger” and also why YOU ARE THE ONLY one that can feed him and provide the satisfaction that he is so hungry to feed on!
There is a quite valid reason why your man won’t, and even can’t tell you what it is that he so desperately wants, even craves from your relationship…
…The truth is, he’s embarrassed to admit it, and why? Because admitting to it shifts the goal posts and moves the target further away from him! And here’s why…
Let’s take an example. Imagine a women who is so frustrated with her man because he never seems to do anything romantic, so much so, that in the end she just breaks down and blurts out all her feelings to him and how much she longs for him to romance her.
However, he takes it all the wrong way and rather unsympathetically and simply asks, “Well what am I doing wrong, what is it that you want from me?”, so she replies, “Just something simple every now and and then, maybe flowers or a cuddly toy.”
So, what happens the next day? You’ve probably guessed it, he brings her some flowers, but there is something missing here, it’s not really that special, there’s no magic, and why, simple, because she had to ask him for them!
But this happens in men too except in a different way. Okay, they don’t probably expect flowers from you, but men have a really big hunger to be admired by you.
The trouble is, admiration is not something you can just ask for. Admiration is something that grows naturally within.
Asking for admiration is like trying to become popular by simply telling everyone that your’re really cool and interesting, but I think we all know that to become popular doesn’t work that way, it’s something that has to be earned over time.
Admiration is a language all of its own, it is non-verbal, it’s something that you have to read between the lines, both of what you say, and what you do. If you want your man to feel like he’s your hero this is something you have to grip on!
Now that doesn’t so bad or complicated does it? You might be thinking to yourself “I understand that, we all have to earn other peoples admiration!” However, there is also something very important that goes along with this…
It’s not just all about admiration and the fact that he craves it, he cannot maintain the feeling of “being in love” without it!
There is nothing more dangerous or faster that can kill a man’s attraction towards you than if he feels as if he’s “not needed” (don’t confuse this with “not wanted”, that’s different!). He has to see himself as the provider in your relationship and that he is admired because of this.
If he isn’t made to feel as though he is needed he will get the feeling of emasculation, or as if he is less of a man, and this in turn will lesson the romantic drive in him and could eventually just simply “switch it of!”
And the problem here you see, as I said earlier, is that you cannot just give your man admiration on a plate, he has to feel like he has earned it by gaining your respect, your trust and then your admiration.
But, there is good news on the horizon here. Once you know how to do it, letting him earn your admiration is both fun and easy.
Now, he wants to be seen as your hero, that gives him purpose, but there are ways of doing this that will simply drive him insanely mad and crazy for you.
But as a relationship coach, there are some things that work and many that don’t. Some women just seem to want to wrap their man around their little finger and think that’s good enough, but this is not the way to go about it. What you do need to do is this…
You need to know how to trigger his hero instinct!
If you know how to do that, you will be so surprised at what can actually happen. He will become so interested in you, and only YOU! He will become so much more loving, more thoughtful, more geared up for a long lasting relationship and even commitment. You won’t know what’s hit you!
The hero instinct is ingrained deep down in every man’s mind, it’s part of his primal instincts and it works subconsciously in the background mostly without him ever even realising and makes him feel good towards other people, but it is much more powerful when it comes to relationships.
Discovering this secret to unlocking the power of his hero instinct can be really life-changing for some. Take a look at this video for a full explanation.
What you do need to learn though, it’s one thing knowing how to trigger his hero instinct, but knowing how to do it effectively is another and requires some tips and tricks up your sleeve.
One thing you do have to realise is that women don’t often actually need rescuing most of the time but there is an ironic twist to this…
Because men have it built into their DNA and it’s part of their primal instincts, men still feel the need to be a provider, to be that hero who is there just in case you do need rescuing and to be protective towards you.
There is one BIG difference between the male and female DNA which heavily influences on what and how a man is attracted to a woman. Although you may think you do not need a hero, he needs to think that you do, it’s the lure of this role that draws him in and closer to women, and any woman that realises this and helps him to step into this role will see the amazing results it can have!
The really good thing about all of this, is it all goes on deep down in the subconscious mind and he won’t even realise why he feels so attracted you, it will be as if you have placed a spell on him.
He won’t understand what is playing around with his emotions an even why. Even if his mate asks him, “What is it that you see so much of in her?”, he won’t be able to explain!
There is no doubt that our feelings of attraction are controlled from deep down in the subconscious, primal part of us.
But also, knowing that we can learn to control this natural instinct can be enormously powerful!
It’s not necessarily all about chemistry and hormones, especially Oxycontin, the natural bonding hormone, but rather, it’s about everything around us and recognising it when you see it.
It’s about how men and women interact with each other, even relationship coaches and experts alike, such as me, have failed to acknowledge it in the past, up until now. We now know how powerful it is and if triggered can have such a profound effect on men’s hunger for a relationship.
So, the burning question here is, how can we build such a powerful, passionate and romantic relationship by knowing how to trigger it?
What we need to know is how to convert our desires and aspirations into a language that taps straight deep into the heart of his natural instinct that drives him to be a provider, to love, cherish, serve and protect, to be YOUR HERO!
If that sounds like fun to you, click here to learn more about this relationship enhancement tool. It’s something you can learn once, but then use for the rest of your life.
We already have all of the needs and desires within us, so why not take the time to learn how we can convert those needs and desires in a way that triggers his hero instinct?
Then sit back and relax while he showers you with his love and affection, a love so strong that he is only able to do once you have triggered the hero instinct from within him. Only YOU can satisfy the hunger from deep within him!
Welcome to the "Male Hero Instinct" website. I hope you find this website interesting and useful. This is a review and discussion website discussing the "Hero Instinct" in men along with some great eBooks to do with the subject for those individuals that may be interested in reading, learning more about it and that may also be of great value and practical help to you as a woman.
Note: Please be aware that this website is typically for women.
Thanks, Emily Wood.